Every relationship starts with a spark that becomes a flame or butterflies in the stomach.
And the truth is, the butterflies do not fly forever, nor does the fire burn brightly forever.
Not like they die, particularly, but they just become gentle, and that is what matters.
If you’ve been dating someone for a while and the spark and longing have mellowed down, you can still bring this back up.
Remember I said the butterflies don’t die, and neither does the flame go out.
When love settles into comfort, that’s when real connection begins, but comfort doesn’t mean losing excitement.
How do you keep the excitement going?
How do you make a man miss you like crazy?
There is definitely no foolproof way to do this, but these methods have been tested and trusted over the years.
8 Tips To Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
1. Give him space to feel your absence
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You cannot miss someone when you’re always in their face.
You need to give room for your absence to be felt.
You do not have to play mind games on this.
It is more of you maintaining your own life and independence.
When you step back a bit, he will notice the void and start thinking about you more.
He will call you more when you start texting less.
This is the first sure step to making him miss you more when you’re on the same page.
2. Be genuinely busy with your own life
It can be very frustrating to be with someone who has no life of their own apart from their partner’s.
I mean, not having your own hobbies, friends, careers, personal goals, ambition, or drive.
Nothing kills attraction faster than someone whose entire world revolves around their partner.
You cannot want a man to miss you when there is no substance for him to look forward to when he sees you.
It’s just the same old routine each time you see.
It is not different from what is happening in his own life.
When you have your own thing going on for yourself, you are fulfilled, happy, and more attractive because you want to be part of the energy you share.
Have a life that excites you so that he wants to be a part of it genuinely.
3. End conversations on a high note
Just like I said, in the first point, you’re not playing games with this man.
Ending conversations on a high note is more of a drive for him to want to see you again.
You leave him wanting him more when you wrap up calls or texts when things are still high.
Of course, you’re not going to do this all the time.
It is to create a bit of scarcity of yourself, as well as giving him a high dose of you to hang onto before you see each other again.
Leave him smiling, laughing, and very curious.
This way, you create an anticipation for your next interaction.
4. Create memorable experiences together
What is the essence of seeing someone when your time together does not count?
You should not have to see anyone to register attendance.
No one gets remembered for how often they are seen.
Instead, what counts is the memories built together.
When you miss someone, it is the moment you spent together in quality that makes you miss them.
Go on an adventure, play games, make every moment count, and these positive memories will be replayed in his head when you’re apart.
This is the foundation of him, missing you and wanting to see you a lot more.
5. Maintain a little mystery
One of the things my husband says is that he believed there was a lot to me when we were friends.
We spoke a lot about ourselves, but still, I did not give all of myself away.
Maintain a little mystery about yourself.
There’s a complete difference between being mysterious and being secretive, and this is not about you being secretive.
It is about showing one side of you at a time.
It leaves him curious, and he wants to dig deeper to know you more.
The more he wants to know, the stronger he has reasons to reach out to you.
6. Show him you’re happy without him (but happier with him)
The only way you can show a man you are so glad without him is if you have a life of your own.
You cannot claim to be satisfied without him if you have a life that is entirely dependent on him.
Of course, you’ll be happier when you are with him because you love each other.
That balance is a very magnetic one.
A man does not want to be with a woman who does not have a life outside of him.
In fact, nobody wants to be in a relationship that thrives on codependency.
When you show that you are happy as an individual, you establish that you chose to be with him rather than needing him.
When you find yourself in this space, you see that he will draw more towards you.
7. Be authentic and confident
Nothing is more attractive than someone comfortable in their own skin.
You have a presence that is yours alone, and that presence will be intensely felt when you’re absent.
He cannot replace your unique presence around him because you’ve not tried to be someone else.
You’ve not tried to be like him, his role model, his ex, or his celebrity crush.
It is that personality he misses when you’re away and nothing else.
8. Use your unique connection
Every relationship and even friendship has its own vibes.
My BFF and I have inside jokes that keep us reeling while no one understands what we discuss.
Same thing with my husband and me.
We have songs that make us look at each other and smile, or that random place that always brings back a memory.
You should have the same with your man.
When situations come up and you have to remind him of these things, you are reawakening what belongs to you both.
They are emotional triggers that keep you in his thoughts when you’re not trying too hard.
The tips above are not about manipulation.
It is about making the most of your relationship and giving it space to grow as it should.
When you do this with a man who genuinely has an interest in you, you’d see that the reaction will be mutual.